No Confusion, Great Life Notion

Many a times in life, we have a lot of confusions ranging from flavor of your ice cream to saying ‘Yes’ to a relationship proposal. I am not only talking about the teenagers but it also accounts for toddlers and adults as well. There are times when your brain is so tangled that you instantaneously get angry and take out your so called anger on others just because your decision making abilities do not co-operate with you. So, let’s help each other today. Let us see what the solution to this turbulence is.

Now to get clear steer of the confusion you are in, you need to give time to yourself to think and act upon the situation. Sit and de-clutter your brain and think how much deep in the mud are you. Think how you fell into the mud, and then think of the possible ways to get out of it. Stop struggling within the mud. The more you wiggle, the deeper you’ll sink into the mess. Just take a stationary hold of yourself and then think of ideas to rise higher.

Now the problem being analyzed, think of solutions to it. Let’s say you have a crush on someone and you can’t bring yourself to draw a borderline to the feelings you have for that person and you overthink about that situation. Now since you have analyzed the problem and taught yourself that it is *just* a crush or else you taught yourself that it is actually Love, you can easily move forward. Now implementing a solution isn’t an easy task bud.

To get rid of the solution you sure have to keep a foot forward and put your stand in front and then work your way to the hilt of it. Be brutally honest, if you know you’re wrong admit it and if you are not then admit it as well. There is only black or white, no grey in between. Secondly, take decisions that have a strong base and can be implemented and performed well in the long run. Instead of making short decisions that terminate within days or hours, make decisions that last until the problem is over. And lastly, think whether your outburst during the confusion or your decision affects someone or not. If you think it damages someone please alter your decision.

These are not the only things you need to keep in mind but there are a gazillion other things that need to be kept in mind whenever taking a decision. Because once you have a fool-proof plan of what you are doing things are easier. And better.

P.S.- This is just my thought and viewpoint. Any criticism is openly welcomed. This is not funny or like the regular posts I make. But this is something I wanted to share since quite a time. Thanks.
P.P.S- I was sleepy when I wrote this, forget and forgive the typos and errors.

-DaYumfooDie. Laugh. Rainbows. Unicorns. Love.