Decoding Relationships Part 3

To all my friends.

Here is to friendship.

1.)  Friends- Every organism on this earth, not even humans, but every organism on this earth has a friend. I do not know what the purpose of having a friend is but all I know is that they lubricate your way through this rusted pipe of life. All the fun, happy moments you would have ever had in your life would have somehow been a birth child of your friends’ antics. Someday if you sit and remember all the crazy moronic activities you and your friends I am cent percent sure that a spring-flowers smile will break out on your face. You know what the condition of good friendship is? Well, if you yourself are a good friend to someone you are sure to get these fun-loving, smart, honest, reliable, trustworthy, 3-am friends. There are many perks of this relationship though. Because once bound, there are many chances of each friendship breaking. There can be many trivial reasons for it. Thus unlike the previous two relations where the individuals were bound by blood, this relation is solely based on your dedication and emotions. Sometimes it becomes really tedious to handle friendships because of our humane drawbacks taking over us. Feelings of jealousy, possessiveness, lying, and sometimes new opportunities somehow make us drift away from friendships. Thus, it is really necessary to have an elephant amount of love, self-will and will-prowess as petrol to the friendship ki gaddi.

-DaYumfooDie.Laugh.Rainbows.Unicorns.Love. 

Decoding Relationships Part 2

Now my take on relationships with Daddies.

          These are one of the most weirdly easy yet most difficult relationships. The point is that you never get to the end or the fullness with a dad, because apparently they have new surprises daily. Even dad-kid relations are do or die situations. Either you and your dad are Rama and Lakshmana or you end up being Ram and Ravana. But the worst part of this relationship is that dads are not that expressive when it comes to feelings. Due to this, you never know what’s going on in that hi-tech, cobwebbed brain of theirs. Probably, if you get a bad score on that junk math test, your mom would scream and create a tornado in the house whilst your dad would be something like, ‘Oh, do well next time.’ And this is when your dads become cool cats. But let me come to the bad part. You must be getting married and your dad is gonna be like, ‘Well, All the best. Be good.’ And he would go outside to negotiate with the caterers. Yes, this happens. The key to this relation is building each other’s trust. The mother of even a bad guy would treat him as a prince of her heart but dads are usually the ones with good and high-level expectations from you. As much as they give you the freedom to do whatever you want and even work hard to pay out your bills, they expect you to be something useful. They want you to be an able, realistic and practical person who can stand on their feet even after he has to leave someday. So, do good works. Make your dad happy. Because a dad finds more happiness in an A+ in your final report card rather than a whisky bottle.

Go make your Daddy proud Son.

-- DaYumfooDie. Laugh.Rainbows.Unicorns. Love.

Decoding Relationships Part 1

Since people need a ‘How-To manual’ in almost everything they do in life. Me, the foodie thought of doing a similar thing. This is not a guide to any process of stitching, or cooking an exquisite Italian dish or writing an article. It’s all about the perks, dos and don’ts and pros and cons of basically five types of relationships in this world, as mentioned above. It isn't possible to perfect any relation; every relation has its own shortcomings whatsoever to make itself unique in its own way. But one must know a good skeleton that takes to make a good body. Let’s Go!

1.)  Mother-Child

This is one of the most pious relations in this world. Any relation between a mother and kid sure has its dose of fights, weird looks and all of that. In fact I just thought that why not give my own life examples to prove to you all my points. I and my mom fight a lot, like a lot, over petty matters. Trust me when I am saying this, when I write my articles, Mom either types unnecessary letters into the passage like a baby or backspaces half of the things I’ve written. All this surely makes me fight her. But trust me when she leaves home to go on a 10-day vacation I either cry or miss her terribly. This relationship has its perks too. Mom-kid relationships are always ‘do or die’ situations. Either you and your mom gel too well, or it’s a proper situation of hell. And the goodie good point of this relationship is that there is no give and take of materialistic things or a dire need to express hearts vocally, it’s all about love and respect. The best way to give a support to this relation is communication, the more you talk to your ma and tell her everything, the more she’ll trust you and the less you’ll find her conservative. Let me take a very filmi line ‘After all your mother has carried you for nine months and bred you up.’ Yes, this is true. You are her blood. (Stepmothers also included because they sacrifice their lives to take care of another person’s children as her own which is very appreciable.) Sometimes moms shed their frustration on you. It hardly matters; maybe the mistake was at your part maybe not. But then as I always say, forgive. She is your ma, cut her some slack. On mother’s day don’t just limit your love to Facebook DP or status, or a whatsapp status. Go and tell your mother how special she is and if you are extra masculine and proud or shy (like me :P), just write it on to a piece of paper and give it to her, because these small things make her life big and matter-ful.

Many more relationships to go! Stay tuned.

-DaYumfooDie. Laugh.Raunbows. Unicorns. Love.