Decoding Relationships Part 1

Since people need a ‘How-To manual’ in almost everything they do in life. Me, the foodie thought of doing a similar thing. This is not a guide to any process of stitching, or cooking an exquisite Italian dish or writing an article. It’s all about the perks, dos and don’ts and pros and cons of basically five types of relationships in this world, as mentioned above. It isn't possible to perfect any relation; every relation has its own shortcomings whatsoever to make itself unique in its own way. But one must know a good skeleton that takes to make a good body. Let’s Go!

1.)  Mother-Child

This is one of the most pious relations in this world. Any relation between a mother and kid sure has its dose of fights, weird looks and all of that. In fact I just thought that why not give my own life examples to prove to you all my points. I and my mom fight a lot, like a lot, over petty matters. Trust me when I am saying this, when I write my articles, Mom either types unnecessary letters into the passage like a baby or backspaces half of the things I’ve written. All this surely makes me fight her. But trust me when she leaves home to go on a 10-day vacation I either cry or miss her terribly. This relationship has its perks too. Mom-kid relationships are always ‘do or die’ situations. Either you and your mom gel too well, or it’s a proper situation of hell. And the goodie good point of this relationship is that there is no give and take of materialistic things or a dire need to express hearts vocally, it’s all about love and respect. The best way to give a support to this relation is communication, the more you talk to your ma and tell her everything, the more she’ll trust you and the less you’ll find her conservative. Let me take a very filmi line ‘After all your mother has carried you for nine months and bred you up.’ Yes, this is true. You are her blood. (Stepmothers also included because they sacrifice their lives to take care of another person’s children as her own which is very appreciable.) Sometimes moms shed their frustration on you. It hardly matters; maybe the mistake was at your part maybe not. But then as I always say, forgive. She is your ma, cut her some slack. On mother’s day don’t just limit your love to Facebook DP or status, or a whatsapp status. Go and tell your mother how special she is and if you are extra masculine and proud or shy (like me :P), just write it on to a piece of paper and give it to her, because these small things make her life big and matter-ful.

Many more relationships to go! Stay tuned.

-DaYumfooDie. Laugh.Raunbows. Unicorns. Love.