Now my take on relationships with Daddies.
These are one of the most
weirdly easy yet most difficult relationships. The point is that you never get
to the end or the fullness with a dad, because apparently they have new
surprises daily. Even dad-kid relations are do or die situations. Either you
and your dad are Rama and Lakshmana or you end up being Ram and Ravana. But the
worst part of this relationship is that dads are not that expressive when it
comes to feelings. Due to this, you never know what’s going on in that hi-tech,
cobwebbed brain of theirs. Probably, if you get a bad score on that junk math
test, your mom would scream and create a tornado in the house whilst your dad
would be something like, ‘Oh, do well next time.’ And this is when your dads
become cool cats. But let me come to the bad part. You must be getting married
and your dad is gonna be like, ‘Well, All the best. Be good.’ And he would go
outside to negotiate with the caterers. Yes, this happens. The key to this
relation is building each other’s trust. The mother of even a bad guy would
treat him as a prince of her heart but dads are usually the ones with good and
high-level expectations from you. As much as they give you the freedom to do
whatever you want and even work hard to pay out your bills, they expect you to
be something useful. They want you to be an able, realistic and practical
person who can stand on their feet even after he has to leave someday. So, do
good works. Make your dad happy. Because a dad finds more happiness in an A+ in
your final report card rather than a whisky bottle.
Go make your Daddy proud Son.
Go make your Daddy proud Son.
-- DaYumfooDie. Laugh.Rainbows.Unicorns. Love.
Aren't all relationships extremes then?
ReplyDelete:) I look forward to your examples for those...
Well.. there really is no such "relationship" wherein being lukewarm is a possible state of being...
A relationship must be passionate - in either extreme. Without it, it simply cannot be. The "relation" disappears. There seems to be no common ground to base their bond on anymore.
The minute the passion dies, the relationship fades into time.
And that is one of the saddest things that could happen to two human beings..
Especially a familial relationship.
Bonds of blood are thick. To break them takes more than the effort of a day.. It takes years of constant, painful damage to turn a family on its head. And that truly is a tragedy or errors...
*tragedy of errors
ReplyDeleteLilliane. This is just a take to give answers to the innumerous questions I get reagrding my familial thoughts.
ReplyDeleteThere are realtionahips where the two people just stay together for the sake of being in it. Its never over but its just there. I'm a rather sunny person who takes into account of all posiyives and general facts. I am not that efficient or wise to live up and consider all the points therein.
As far as extremeness is concerned. There are relations not as fierce and passionate as you deem them to be. There are families who are families but not the way you are making me percieve them to be and I guess imI have seen more of them.
This post is not a description but rather a few to-do's in a realtion. Guess I am bad at titles,eh?
Well "Decoding" then does come across as a bit misleading :)
ReplyDeleteThat's alright.. You're writing from your personal perspective..
But those families which just... live under the same roof for the sake of the name... those are the ones that are fading, aren't they...
The children will leave soon.. The older ones will die soon..
Such relationships are slaves to time. Everyone in them is just waiting for the other to move on and leave the house or leave the earth. Reviving and resurrecting these dying and dead relationships is an issue.
Fair enough that the extremes are not exaggerated as I said..