Showing posts with label Teenage guide. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Teenage guide. Show all posts

Sunday, 25 May 2014

A 3-step guide to Teenage. : Final step.


Here you go with the last and a very important step:
3.) Failures
Well… yes, every human fails. Because we are playing Russian roulette with our brain senses, we make weird goals and when they don’t get fulfilled we count them as ‘Failures’. Not being into a relationship with the person you have been crushing for the past three years, six months, 18 days, 12 hours and 55 minutes, not winning the lottery, not getting a 0.5 more than you sworn enemy, not being able to insult your sibling with whom you fought... This stupid list goes on. And what fascinates me is, people actually end up their lives for not getting their so called ‘goals’. Yes, you have failures in life, you lose valuable friends and possessions, you don’t get the desired scores and goals, you often aren’t appreciated for the hard work you do. But then are you dead? No. Are you blind and can’t read this? No. Are you un-loved by people? No, you have your parents and me to love you ;) Is your mouth paralyzed and you can’t smile? No. Whenever you fall, never look above and see that you can’t touch the sky, but look down and you’ll see that there are more downtrodden people, rather than grieving at yourselves, help others and kaboom! You achieve something in life! And yeah, sometimes smiling at failures gives a turbo boost to your self esteem.
As teenagers we experience different feelings, passions and ideas. It is a part of our life cycle and has to be gone through. So just keep a hold on yourselves, communicate with all the experienced and knowledgeable people to clear your minds, and always remember that when you fall, never stay there but get up and keeping walking on because a good teen will grow to become a good adult and a good human J
-DaYunFooDie. Laugh.Rainbows.Unicorns.Love.

Saturday, 24 May 2014

A 3-step guide to teenage. : Step 2


Well, here is the second step :

2.) Energy aka Aggression energy
This is a weird heading for a step, but it is a fact. We must know how to tackle the extra energy that comes at this age. We become angry for no reason at times which results in lot of extra energy which we end up using for a dramatic ‘Revenge’. We become angry and turn into a hot headed mess, throwing tantrums and mummy’s favorite vases around. Well, we become a personalized version of The Hulk in short. So, we must control our energy at these instances. Just like hot air can be controlled in our desired ways, same is with the energy we have. Hot air can either be put into a balloon and the balloon can be thrown away or hot air can be used to cook food too. Same is with the hot energy we have. When you get angry either punch a pillow hard and let go of it. Or do something productive. Draw something, write a song, a story, cook food, do yoga, meditate, sing a song, dance your heart out, spend time with loved ones, play outside, have a stroll in the park, exercise, jump around, click pictures, read something, search the internet for new things, edit pictures, make someone else smile….and the list goes on! So when you’re angry get a grip and divert the anger to a miracle
J

Wait for it peeps, step 3 for tomorrow.
-DaYumfooDie.Laugh.Rainbows,Unicorns.Love.


Friday, 23 May 2014

A 3-Step Guide to Teenage.


A 3-step guide to teenage.
As a teenager I know the perks of being so. You are treated almost as if you are an ET. It isn’t so but hormones are all over the place and play roulette with your brain and common sense, which results in a very confused and dizzy state of mind. You are torn down between being a kid and an adult because apparently you aren’t either of them.  Even if I myself am a teen, my extra reading observing brain cells present to you a guide to, The whacky, The happening and The scandalous, Teenage.

1.) Relationships
Well, well, well even I need some advice on this one. Jokes apart, Teenage doesn’t only centralize towards the crushy-lovey relations, but it also affects our relations among our peers, siblings and with parents. We become rebellious towards our parents, sacrificing towards our friends and try to be the most attractive girlfriend material to the charmers of the opposite sex. What we teenagers should think is to maintain a balance. Yes, sometimes we are confused and things can be blamed on to hormones, but then there is a magic word, ‘Communication’. The more you communicate with everyone and tell your respective feelings towards the right people; they will understand that it’s not you who is acting weird but your wild side that is showing its true face. And when it comes to true love, all you need to do is get a grip towards your heart and lust honey, divert your ‘Passion’ towards productive loves, like reading and singing stuff, this will help you a lot.

Next step, well.. you need to be curios right? WAIT for tomorrow peeps ;)
-DaYumfooDie.Laugh.Rainbows.Unicorns.Love.